Awhile back I got a phone call from a close friend on his professional situation. We discussed the struggle and seemingly endless battle that he is facing. As we talked, it became apparent that what we were discussing has become pretty common in our society. Problems with perception, unrealistic expectations, egos, selfishness, poor communication, lack … Continue reading Purpose In The Battle
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How Can I Lead Better Today?
I loved the imagery of soldiers in alignment working together... Each on the same mission, knowing their every move, and being the example for each other. I am often asked "How can I be a better leader in my position?" or told "I want to go into leadership." First, we make leadership more complicated than … Continue reading How Can I Lead Better Today?
Know Your Worth
"He gave his own armour to David for him to wear: a bronze helmet, which he put on David's head, and a coat of armour. David strapped Saul's sword over the armour and tried to walk, but he couldn't, because he wasn't used to wearing them. “I can't fight with all this,” he said to Saul." - … Continue reading Know Your Worth
How Can I Bring Value?
How can I bring value? Is this the question we often think about? In reality we probably concentrate more on how we can feel valuable and be treated differently. Success is an identity crisis and is always connected to how we view ourselves. We put ourselves in a mental state of being reactive instead of … Continue reading How Can I Bring Value?
Insecure vs Secure Leadership
"Insecure leaders never develop people. They replace them." -John Maxwell People can obtain a leadership position for lots of reasons.... education, experience, performance, relationships, certifications, etc.... The perks of status, a pay raise, and influence can definitely seem more appealing and these positions can be highly wanted. However one's leadership potential cannot be measured until … Continue reading Insecure vs Secure Leadership
Celebrate Development…. Not Potential
One of the worst things we can do for a talented athlete is to celebrate potential without development. I have seen over my career many times, people consistently building a kid up based on their potential, results, and natural athletic ability. But the truth is that some players are talented enough to get results without … Continue reading Celebrate Development…. Not Potential
Keep Your Head Up
One of the first life lessons we learn in sports is to "Keep your head up." When we first fail in that attempt, practice, or game and do not think we measure up. We have all been there... Head down, looking at our feet and ground.... Totally lost in our thoughts and not knowing what … Continue reading Keep Your Head Up
Perfect Recovery Shake: 5 Loaves & 2 Fish
Every major college football program in the country has a whole department dedicated to nutrition. Nutrition is key in developing a high level athlete and universities are investing millions of dollars into this process. Everyday an athlete needs fuel to sustain and recover from a hectic schedule. Athletes are having specific plans created that intentionally … Continue reading Perfect Recovery Shake: 5 Loaves & 2 Fish
Aluminum Foil Basketball
Several years ago I was visiting a friend and he was showing me around his hometown. The area was very rural and most households seemed to be very poor. He was telling me stories about the area and showing me where his childhood friends lived. We pulled up on one house on a very steep … Continue reading Aluminum Foil Basketball
A Letter to the “Dedicated”
If you are reading this, then there is something that has sparked your interest. Either you are "Dedicated", think you are, or want to be.... Thank you in advance, and today I want to give you a little education. There is a difference between being committed and being dedicated. Commitment means we are meeting the … Continue reading A Letter to the “Dedicated”